Out of the blue divorces

Imagine you’re a divorce lawyer – and indeed you may be. Now imagine that every time one of your clients comes to see you to finalise their divorce papers, you routinely ask them a couple of questions about the state of their marriage. Six months to a year before the divorce, you ask, how happy were…

I really need you to hear how I feel right now

It’s easy to see how it happens. Your husband had something important to tell you. Maybe he was worried. Maybe he’d been hurt. Maybe it was a past experience that he’d been thinking about a lot lately. He needed to talk to you about it. Telling you made him feel strangely vulnerable. He’d never told anyone…